Define Toxic Relationship-Is Your Relationship Toxic ?

Your life will be unpleasant when you are around toxic people. This article is about toxic relationship. How do you define toxic relationship? How can you tell if you are in a toxic relationship? Here are some clues:

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-While your partner says they love you, their actions don’t back it up
-Your partner puts you down (verbally) in front of others
-Your partner tries to make you dependent on them.
-You have changed things about yourself to please them.
-Your partner is controlling–reading your mail or “showing up” at places you are just to “check up” on you.

Toxic people make you feel ill just being around them. So, why would anyone end up in a toxic relationship? Why would anyone want to be with someone who makes them feel emotionally or physically harmed?

A toxic relationship has a cycle. There’s a honeymoon period, followed by a blow up, followed by reconciliation – at which point the cycle begins anew.
When you first meet a new partner, you are obviously in the honeymoon stage. It is not until they’ve sucked you in further that you realize that you are in a toxic relationship. At that point, it is difficult to get out.

One reason is that many people in toxic relationships grow up in toxic homes. As a result, they replicate the patterns of their childhood without even knowing they’re doing it. And, they may not know any better. Others believe they do not deserve happiness. Still others find that they enjoy taking care of people.

But the first step in getting out and staying out of toxic relationships is to realize that you do have choices. Often people who stay in these couples have low self esteem or suffer from depression.

Once you realize that you have choices, the next step is to start standing up for yourself. In most toxic relationships, the toxic partner has taught you that it is all your fault. Once you buy into this, it can be very difficult to either walk away from the relationship or set new limits that can heal the relationship.

For some people, working in therapy groups can help them either get out of or redefine these horrible relationships.

The good news is that some people are able to break the cycles of toxic relationships. Some of them leave the relationship and form new, healthier bonds.
But others are actually able to repair their relationship and stay in it.

The truth is that most relationships are able to be salvaged. Sometimes it takes a little space. Other times, it takes counseling. But if both partners make an attempt, it is possible to renew the bonds in a healthy way.

The first thing you need to decide is that the relationship must improve or you’re willing to walk away. If you aren’t willing to walk away, you’ll never be able to heal that which divides you.

Once you have liberated yourself from the dependency that is at the core of a toxic relationship, you can start to assert what you need from the connection. Don’t nag the other person. Simply say “I need your support,” “I need your love,” or “I need your truthful opinion.”
If you don’t get what you need, the other person should know that you’re prepared to walk.

A healthy relationship is a two way street. In a toxic relationship, the street is only going one way. You have the power to change that, but you must take the power into your own hands.

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Let’s Talk About Love, Broken Relationship And Magic of Making Up

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"You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when it’s right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and its good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete." - Keith Sweat.

When people love each other they want to be happy and together forever…
But in relationships feelings and emotions might change in a run. They get stronger; they might fade away as well.

And if he or she left you, suddenly all your regular routine falls apart: loss appetite, leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry, thinking non-stop about why he/she really left you, feeling massively depressed… “Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same." -Flavia Weedn.

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And when you do get a hold of your ex, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? Panic…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty…

Then you start make mistakes with your ex: you apologize profusely for everything; try to convince you are the love of his/her life etc. Everything you do, just doesn’t help, the more and more defensive angry and distant you become.

Did you know that most relationships can be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situation you can imagine…like man serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

"The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to present time. And that's why when one has become a forgiving person, and has managed to let go of the past, what they've really done is they've shifted their relationship with time." – Caroline Myss.

So, what to do and how to fix a broken relationship?
It’s not all your fault or your ex fault, since involvement is a 50-50 relationship. Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car, and all the latest fashions, yet very little useful information on how to fix a broken relationship, manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?

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