In relationships feelings and emotions might change in a run. They get stronger; they might fade away as well. And if he or she left you, suddenly all your regular routine falls apart. Let me ask you: Do you have these symptoms?
Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry; loss of appetite; calling your ex several times a day; text messaging and emailing constantly; constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called; not going out because you are afraid to miss a call; thinking non-stop about why they really left you; feeling massively depressed; feeling urges to spy on them…
And when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C...defensiveness...arguments...and then it gets really nasty.
Then you start to make mistakes with your ex:
-you try to convince her/him you are the love of her/his life;
-you will apologize profusely for everything;
-promise to change for good this time;
-try to get her/him to see that it wasn't really your fault;
-even beg to take you back.
And of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Did you know that most relationships can be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, lost of interest, a stolen heart…even the worst situation you can imagine have salvaged relationships.
Don't you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back? or vice versa?
I bet you know at least one guy or girl that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?
Now…I am not saying they were holding some "secret love spell" book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by mostly accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Please know-this is not your fault that you don’t know what to do and how to fix a broken relationship. You weren't taught this in school. You probably weren't taught this by your parents…and there is no "get your ex back" night school... And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love? Cars? Money? Clothes? Algebra? So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car, managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little useful information on how to fix a broken relationship, manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
There IS a "recipe for love" as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…
T.W. Jackson, author of amazing guide “The Magic Of Making Up”. He is not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru, but because of his lifelong military experience he became really good at reading and understanding people. He got a ton of practice keeping relationships together and putting them back together after they had come apart. T’Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up”. And you know, it WORKS like magic for many men and women.
Check out this site, watch video below, and I’m sure you will find answers to your questions about how to get back with your ex. Good luck!
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